Archive for May, 2007

Special Guest!

Brian and I are so thrilled to have Jeff Jochum, the VP of Pictage, fly in from LA today to spend the day with us. I can’t tell you how honored I was when Jeff suggested this at WPPI. With how crazy our schedules are, I wasn’t sure if it would happen. But Jeff has totally made this trip a priority and he arrives at noon! We can’t wait to show him around, and if he’s lucky, he’ll get to have a horti-torture tour of our garden! :)

If you are an entrepreneur, you must see Jeff’s website. Check out his 14 tips for guidance. I especially like #11. He has done this with Pictage over and over again. Can anyone imagine a community of photographers like Pictage?

11. Cultivate a culture of openness:
Foster an atmosphere of honesty and candor and lay the framework for collaboration and communication amongst team members.

Jeff Jochum’s resume is overwhelming with how many multi-million dollar companies he’s been the CEO or VP of. For Brian and I to have some alone time with him and pick his brain is such a gift!

I’ll be sure to share how our day went. I know Brian and I are going to be different people after today!

Off to the airport!

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He’s Here!

On May 29th 2007 at 1:38am in the morning, Ginger and Bleu had their second baby. A boy! Meet Grady William Braaten!

Ginger is doing great! She has been such a trooper. Her due date came and went days ago! But the best is Brogan’s reaction when she heard she has a REAL baby brother!

Don’t you love that! :) I can’t stop laughing!

Bleu and Ginger Braaten are dear friends and our Associate Wedding team. They shoot a lot of our WA weddings. Bleu also shoots for Nordstrom’s corporate studio by day. You can see their work on our website at www.merakoh.com.

Send them a big congrats if you get a chance! Either post it here or email, bleu@merakoh.com.

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Breathe!

I know we all have tons to do, but if you’re in Seattle the weather is AMAZING today! I decided to do something I don’t ever do. I took off from work and did a 20 mile bike ride in the middle of the day.

You may not have time to do a bike ride, but try to step away early today and do something for yourself. You deserve it! I know we just had a three day weekend, but we still deserve treating ourselves! :)

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But first meet his better half! :) One of my dearest and best friends from college, Shalom!

Shalom and I have been laughing and crying together since we first met in ‘91. Now she’s married to an amazing man who is also an extremely talented painter, Chris Shreve. And, they just had their second baby, Scarlet Justice.

The summer is their high season too because they hit a bunch of art festivals around the country. Chris and Shalom set up their booth and have all his originals available as prints.

Just from the above photo, you can see how intense Chris’s work is. You can check out his site to see his stuff more up close and personal. It’s pretty amazing work. One of my favorites is the painting called, “the word was made flesh“.

This image below is his latest project.

By commission, he’s painting an original portrait of your child in a whimsical scene of your choice. “Imagine your child as a stork delivered baby, a frog kissing princess, a star dreaming astronaut a horse loving cowgirl, a ship sailing pirate.”

This is their little guy Enoch. I love how the top of his sword has a candle burning. If only you could see the original on this! It’s AMAZING! These commission portraits run around $6K.

We all love Chris! You have to know that he is very selective with his words. :)

So when he pipes up at the dinner table, we ALL shut up because he may not say another word for the rest of the night. :) (just teasing you Chris) Where Shalom, Brian and I have the opposite problem of not letting each other finish our sentences.

The truth is we all want to be Chris. That tall, dark, mysterious, quiet painter guy that makes everyone wonder. In fact, when Chris ran to get a drink, Brian assumed the role of being Chris and looking “painter like”. Convincing huh! Doesn’t he look like a serious painter that is just to intimidating to even approach? It’s the whole chin action he’s got going. :)

So here’s to the Shreve family and their first summer festival! And all the crazy, wonderful energy they invite!

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Move Your Feet!

The last couple weeks, I’ve had this great opportunity to get a few photos of my mom. Blaze and I went to her house for lunch the other day, and I grabbed these shots of them in her garden. My mom has always had the most beautiful, vibrant garden. It was so fun to watch her and Blaze play with the flowers.

My mom is also an incredible real estate agent. She specializes in waterfront properties. In the next month she’s coming out with this great, new marketing piece, so we did a few photos yesterday of her talking with our neighbor Ken. And at one point, she couldn’t stop giggling! I shot away. She’s so beautiful when she laughs.

My whole life people have asked me if my mom was my sister. Isn’t she stunning! And I love her little SOLD jewel pin. :)

There are so many great stories I could share about my mom. But the thing that amazes me most is her inner strength. She and my dad have endured unbelievable pain together, and they are still in love like it’s their honeymoon (35 years!). My mom has also walked alongside me through every storm. At times I have felt as if my pain was harder for her than even myself. How does a mother watch their child suffer and not fall apart inside? How do they stay strong and keep loving, resisting the urge to shut down b/c it just hurts to much sometimes?

If I have half the strength my mom has for her children and her marriage, I will be better than okay. (love you mom!)

But why is this post in the category Photography Tips for Moms and titled Move Your Feet? I had an exercise that came to me after working on the first three photos of Blaze and my mom.

It’s called Move Your Feet! I hope you enjoy!

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Exercise for Move Your Feet!

To often we get lazy with all our zoom lenses. I’m so guilty of this! Instead of moving our feet and re-framing a shot we just stay in one place and zoom in and out. Since we’ve got a three day weekend ahead of us, let’s move our feet with the camera! :)

1. Have your little one and your spouse, or grandparent, or neighbor, sit down together and interact with each other. This could be looking at flowers, blowing bubbles, tickling each other, any thing that keeps them sitting close in proximity.

2. Bring your aperture down to somewhere between a 2.8 to 3.5. This way you have a nice blurred background, while the image is focused on them.

3. Now take a couple shots of them interacting and move your feet as you re-frame for each shot. As parents we have ask a lot of our kids for a picture. We ask them to say cheese five hundred times. We ask them to move a little to the left or right, bend down a bit, stand up straighter, sound familiar? For this exercise don’t invade their moment at all and move around them. Be an observer of the moment and shoot every little detail and expression.

4. Be mindful of different angles, different points of view, different distances. Don’t zoom, just move in or out, or get up high or down low. For the first shot above I was up on a chair, then I got down and moved in a little closer and framed them tighter so it would feel a bit more intimate.

5. Send me what you get! And have a wonderful, sunny (fingers crossed), three day weekend!

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To learn more about me visit About Me Ra.

For information on Me Ra’s popular photography workshops and DVD series for parents, visit DVD series and “Documenting a Child’s Life.”

To see our day job, visit our website. :)

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Last night was the BEST! We had our monthly photographer’s meeting, and Ira Gershoff from Leather Craftsman flew up from CA to show us the latest albums. They are all breath taking! Loved and wanted them ALL!

But on top of seeing the albums, it was so cool to listen to Ira share. He’s been with Leather Craftsman for 23 years! He’s watched the photography industry go through so many changes that you couldn’t help but be mesmerized by all his stories. Here he is with Ron doing a self portrait. :) Ira’s in back and Ron’s holding the camera in front.

Brian and I were talking about Ron last night after the meeting. Ron Storer is one of those guys that every time you walk away from a conversation or just saying hello you think, ‘He is one of the nicest, most genuine guys.’ It’s so true. There is no doubt why Ron’s brides love working with him so much! Check out his site if you’ve never seen it.

This is another fun shot I stole from Ron’s blog of our wall of vintage mirrors in the living room. Kind of fun how Ron captured the different reflections.

The night was really magical for us. I love, love, love this community of local photographers. I felt so refreshed from the conversations I had with people, laughing and crying, and often both at the same time. Steve Smith hung out in our new garden with me until 11pm giving me all kinds of tips on gardening. Every one that came survived my horti-torture, I mean horticulture tour. :) And I think we finished off four bottles of wine in the process. For some reason people brought mostly wine and not food this time. Is this an indicator of stress with the busy season upon us?

If you’re a photographer and want to join us, we hold these meetings every month at our home. Shoot me an email, and I’ll send you the details! We’ve got some cool things planned for the summer, like a Garden Party (fun drinks, music, etc) and a Pizza/Wine Dinner at a local spot where we’re going to rent out the whole place!

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I’d like you to meet little Avery. Isn’t she a doll!

Avery and her mom, Andrea, were the models for one of our recent Photography Workshops for Moms. When they showed up for the live shoot segment, the room filled with magic as we all oohed and aaah’d over this sweet thing.

Here’s some fun little newborn shooting tips. For more, check out some older posts and our DVD series coming out soon (very soon! :) ).

Photography Tip 1: I love to have someone shake car keys or a rattle to the upper right of me when I’m photographing a baby. It helps me capture this heavenly look in their eyes.

Photography Tip 2: Don’t stress about having backdrops. If you’re shooting at a low enough aperture, the carpet may be a great background for you (depending on it’s color :) ). This image was shot at a F. 2.8. For learning more about aperture, click here!

Feet…are the BEST!

Photography Tip 3: Have the mom wear a black t-shirt or tank top so that you have a black background when photographing the baby.

Photography Tip 4: Have your camera on continuous shutter so you can take a few photos at once. This way you won’t miss any of those great expressions. :)

And last but not ever least, Photography Tip 5: Even though the photo shoot is about baby, don’t forget to blur the baby and capture one of beautiful mom and all her joy. This is her time too, and she’s done so much to get to this point.

A big hug to Avery and her family!

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To learn more about me visit About Me Ra.

For information on Me Ra’s popular photography workshops and DVD series for parents, visit DVD series and “Documenting a Child’s Life.”

To see our day job, visit our website. :)

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Chicago Recap!

Even though it was over a week ago, I still have to recap on PartnerCon in Chicago! It was an AMAZING trip!

I arrived Monday evening and went to dinner with the guys from Shoot Dot Edit. If you haven’t heard of this business (and you are a photographer), you NEED to check them out! Their website alone is FANTASTIC! They have amazing photographers and editors on their team and are providing a service to the industry that is hard to pass up.

My speaking session on Tuesday went really well! One of the women that I talked to afterward flew from Puerto Rico and told me how she’s been following our site and blog. She’s a mom, beautiful wife and photographer trying to find ways to juggle it all. It was incredible to meet her, hear about her business and especially make a new friend. (my kids LOVED her card and the images, so of course now I can’t find it and can’t remember her name! if this is you in the photo below let me know! :) )

I brought 22 Associate 101 Kits, and I think we sold all but three or four. If you’re interested in buying one and didn’t make it to PartnerCon shoot me an email and we’ll ship you one. They are $99, plus shipping, and you can read more about their content here.

After the session I did an interview for Real Women Scrap TV. It’s great video podcast with lots of fun stuff for women scrapbookers. Check it out!

Tuesday night was the icing on the cake. I was invited to a small dinner with Jeff Jochum (the VP at Pictage), Denis Reggie, Mike Colon, and Robert Evans, and Sara France. Our dinner unfolded into this wonderful three hour conversation of how to improve our businesses, be an encouragement to others, be leaders and yet know our limits. The evening was priceless. The company was powerful and inspiring.

Four years ago, I was in one of Denis’s workshops, and he changed our whole business. There is no way Brian and I would be where we are without having gone to Denis’s workshop.

Photography conferences are an amazing way to get yourself into the industry and grow your business. WPPI is every year in Vegas and Pictage holds two Partner Conferences. Investing money in attending one of these is one of the wisest investments you can make in your business!

FYI! Partner Con in LA is coming up in September 2007 for all the West Coast people!

If you were in Chicago and took some shots at my session, will you email them to me? I’d love to post them up and share!

Here’s a fun one from a new photographer friend in Kansas City, Kevin Keith, a great guy with a passion for photography and his clients! It was great meeting you Kevin! Can’t wait for you to meet Brian too!

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I’m so excited to share this new interview with you that went live this morning!

While speaking in Chicago last week, I was asked by Ron Dawson of Cinematic Studios to do an interview for his wife’s video podcast. Tasra is an amazing woman with an incredible story of survival and healing. Now she and her husband, Ron, produce and host a video podcast called Real Women Scrap.

A large part of their website is to have real women share their stories. It was a total honor to share my story, and I can’t believe how good it turned out. The filming conditions were tough with it being in the hotel lobby and people talking, rolling their suitcases through, but I don’t think you’d ever know b/c of how great of an editor Ron is!

For those of you who haven’t heard my story and don’t know how I ended up in photography, I hope this interview blesses and encourages you. Much Warmth, Me Ra

To watch the interview, ****CLICK HERE****.

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Love is a Choice!

Some of our friends are putting together a new non-profit website for couples. The website is called Love is a Choice. I love it already! Check it out and see what’s in the works.

From what I understand, they’re going to have lots of interviews with married couples sharing tips to how they’ve stayed married along the way. There’s nothing better than hearing you’re not alone from another couple. In fact, there was a time in our marriage when we were going through some extreme trauma. Out of nowhere, three different couples, who didn’t know each other, took us under their wing and invited us out to dinner multiple times. Each couple had been married for over fifty years. What overwhelmed our friends was peanuts to these guys. Seeing our trauma next to couples who had been married for over fifty years was the best medicine to help us get through that storm in our marriage.

I have a little, little soap box and then I’ll stop. :) There isn’t enough talk in the wedding industry about how to keep couples married after the big day. And marriage is hard! We all need ALL the help we can get so we can reap the amazing benefits of sticking it out. I’m so excited for our photography friends to be supporting this website. I hope it encourages some of you as it’s encouraging me.

To end with a little story (true story). :) When Brian asked me to marry him, I said I would only marry him if we went to professional counseling together (none of this pastoral counseling stuff–our baggage was a bit heavy for that). He now tells people that he said he’d only stay married to me if we stayed in counseling. :)

Twelve years later, we’ve got the same counselor and an amazing marriage.

Tough at times? Very.

Worth it? Absolutely!

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