Archive for March, 2008

Yesterday afternoon was pretty exciting! We were given the word that Rangefinder’s March issue had gone live!

The reason this is so fun is because Rangefinder did a four page spread on our studio, our blog, DVDs and 101 Kits!

For those of you who aren’t familiar with Rangefinder, rumor has it that it’s the #1 trade magazine for pro photographers. We get our copy every month and LOVE to read through the articles and “ooh and ahh” over the featured photographers. Brian and I are pinching ourselves to see our studio among the features! It’s a HUGE honor!

Has anyone received their copy? I’m checking our mailbox every day! :)

If you don’t receive Rangefinder and want to read our article, you can click on “Rangefinder March 08″.

I have to thank Amber Holritz for writing this awesome article. Amber and I have known each other for a few years, and I was so excited when I heard she was my assigned writer. This girl is always up to something fun. Check out her latest workshops happening ALL over the east coast!

This March 2008 issue spreads the word on all those who have platform speaking sessions (meaning your audience capacity can range from 500-1000!) coming up at WPPI. Brian and I have been working until 3am, sometimes 4am, every morning to get all our ducks in a row and keep the studio’s work flow moving forward for WPPI. The countdown is on with the Vegas convention starting this weekend! AHHHHHH!

We’ll be doing a platform session on Monday, 8:30am-10:30am, but we’ll also be speaking at Pictage’s Conference, Sony’s Booth and Adobe’s Booth. AND, we’ve got super cool door prizes like Cybershot Cameras, Software and 101 Kits galore! :)

Are any of you coming? If yes, post it up in the comments!

I’m going to try and post our speaking schedule in the next couple days, so we can hopefully connect with some of you in person!

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As of yesterday, we are officially SOLD OUT for our upcoming San Diego workshop in May! Brian, Carey and I are all so excited!!

Now it’s time to do my favorite contest of all! We have saved one spot for the mom who wins the new Running on Empty contest!

Here’s how it works!

In honor of how wonderful moms are and all that they do and give, Brian and I have reserved one spot in the San Diego Women’s Workshop from Friday, May 23rd to 26th for a special mom YOU nominate! That’s right, she’ll get a free pass to the beginner workshop as well as the Add On day with Carey and I talking about the business side of starting/enhancing your photography business!

To nominate a mom, you must post a comment telling us about the mom who you think deserves a big break in life! If your a mom, you’re probably laughing because we ALL deserve a serious break. But the moms we’re looking for are the ones who have had a ridiculous amount of stress in their life whether from trauma or things just not going her way this year. She is a mom in your life that needs a serious blessing to come her way. She needs a surprise giving her empty tank some fuel. If she is a woman that has miscarried, she is still a mom in my mind b/c I know her heart became a mother’s heart the moment she found out she was pregnant.

I’m proud to say that our last two winners stepped out on a limb and nominated themselves. Take courage in them and feel free to nominate yourself if you know you need a serious break. Who knows, you may have your house remodeled by Oprah! :)

We’ll collect all the nominees, have a committee of wonderful moms vote, and then announce the winner in the next few weeks!

Nominate her today, and turn her day around!

Be sure to let her know you’ve nominated her too! If I was a mom nominated I’d love to know that my friends were thinking of me whether I won or not!

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Are you considering coming to one of our 2008 workshops?

If so, we still have some spots left in the upcoming Sonoma/Wine Country Workshop (April 25th-28th, 2008–the night of the 25th and 28th is optional)! Hurry and sign up before this workshop sells out too! (this is the only workshop we are taking registration for in 2008 as of now)

Come sip wine with us, laugh, cry, eat wonderful savory foods,

learn to use your camera, have a special portrait session with the acclaimed, celebrity photographer Rick Chapman,

and give yourself a break in life, while making new friends!

The workshop already has women who are flying in from Florida, Virginia, Colorado, CA and WA! You don’t want to miss this! Unless…unless you are in Texas, I believe we’ve decided to add Texas to our 2008 schedule too (details coming soon!)!! :)

For all the details on the Wine Country Workshop with the schedule and photos of where we are holding the event, visit this blog post! Online registration is available at www.refusetosaycheese.com and click on Workshops in the left hand browse box! FYI–If you own Beyond the Green Box–dvd 2, there is a coupon inside for $100 off any workshop!

To read about past workshops and what others have said, visit these links below! Enjoy!

The scoop on the January 2008 Workshop!

The scoop on the October 2007 Workshop!

The scoop on the September 2007 Workshop!

Feedback from Past Workshop Attendees!

“This was the BEST day I’ve had in a long time…it was so nice to wade through and be challenged, laugh along the way, conquer a fear, and leave wanting more. What a day! I can’t thank you enough!”

“I’ve had the aperture, shutter speed, and ISO lecture more times than I can count. This was the first time I’d heard it from a woman’s perspective, and the first time it really made sense!”

“I feel like I’m not just a better “photographer” but a better person! Thank you!”

“I loved the analogies as they weren’t technical but instead practical.”

“Me Ra has a gift in being able to teach technical material in a learnable way.”

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You have all been super PATIENT while we play major catch up on life after being gone for two weeks. Thank you so much!

The votes were counted and recounted! Finalist #5 “Big Brother’s Love” taken by Michelle is the WINNER!!!

Yeah for Michelle!

I’m sure that winning a photo contest was the furthest thing from Michelle’s mind when she took this photo of her two boys. To even pick up a camera in this painful moment would mean that she had to step out of her pain long enough to become a documenter of her family’s life. This fact alone makes me that much more excited to see that your votes brought her to being the winning photo.

To read the beautiful story behind this photo, and Michelle’s comment, you can click on the finalist post. Get a Kleenex or two!

Michelle, email us at contest@merakoh.com with your address, and we’ll ship you your prize of Adobe’s Lightroom software! Yeah! You are going to LOVE Lightroom!

Now for the next winner: the Random Voter!!!

The Random Voter Prize goes to Amy! Her post was #38 and said;

Amy
First i want to say that i love all of the picture! My vote is for #2 Newlyweds with a European Flavor, by Acacia. Being a newlywed myself, I can totally put myself in that moment. The image is so fresh, sugary sweet, i love it! I also love how her legs come forward in the shot, and i love the upward look in her eyes.

congrats to everyone for making the final 5!

Amy, thank you so much for voting for one of the finalists! Not only is it great that you voted, but the feedback you left as a voter was wonderful too! I’m so happy that the random number was 38!

We’d like to send you a copy of DVD 2, Beyond the Green Box!

If you already own DVD 2, then let us know and we will send you credit of the equal value to spend on the Refuse to Say Cheese site toward another product or workshop! Email us your preference at contest@merakoh.com.

Congrats to the two wonderful winners today!! So many people emailed and posted comments saying that ALL five of the finalists’ photos were amazing, and they truly were. Thank you to everyone who sent us a photo submission for the contest as well! The number of submissions we received was AMAZING!

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Now for the NEW CONTEST THEME!!!!

The theme is “Darkness and Light”.

With daylight savings this last weekend, and the light around us starting to change, I thought it would be fun to experiment with the lack of light and/or the abundance of light. You can send us any type of photo that fits this theme. If you’ve never tried taking a silhouette photo, they are super fun. You can learn from our Beyond the Green Box dvd how to manipulate your shutter speed to capture a silhouette. They are way easier than you think.

But you don’t have to send us silhouettes. Submit whatever image you’d like that ties in to the theme of “Darkness and Light”. You can also share the story behind the photo, but if you do I may share it on the blog too. :)

Send your new photo submissions to contest@merakoh.com. The prize will be announced later.

In the meantime, check back tomorrow morning for a special announcement that will bless you or someone you know! Don’t you love the anticipation! :)

I love surprises!!! Happy Monday!

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I’m putting the final touches on the Survival 101 Kit for Moms! I’m so excited to release this long awaited kit! Brian and I are hoping to have it go live on our product site when we do our big platform session at WPPI in Vegas (which is less than two weeks away!).

But before I wrap this kit up, I’m wondering if you could tell me what you hope to find in this kit. When you think of buying a 101 Survival Kit for Moms, what information do you want to hear? I can only cover so much, but I’d love to hear what some of you are thinking.

The theme of the kit is “How to survive motherhood while pursuing your dream(s)”. :)

With that in mind, what would you want to know more about when you think of this theme?

Thanks for the feedback ladies!! I’m so excited to have this go live in less than two weeks!!!

Oh, and the finalist for the L-O-V-E photo contest will either be posted later today or tomorrow morning. There are a heck of a lot of votes to count! Awesome job voting friends!!

The winning finalist gets their own Adobe Lightroom software and the random voter winner gets a copy of DVD 2, Beyond the Green Box!

Okay, now leave me your comments on this kit. I’m wrapping it up by Friday at the latest!

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For more info or to purchase any of our other 101 Kits (Weddings 101, Portraits 101, Associate 101 and Getting Published 101), go to www.refusetosaycheese.com!

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The Scuba Movie is Live!! Yeah!!!

Brian and Me Ra Scuba diving in Koh Phi Phi Thailand

Be prepared, it’s almost 13 minutes in length and the music is a bit choppy after we converted this for the web. So feel free to turn your volume down. :) Our kids are loving it, so you may want to grab the kiddos!

If you’re looking for Brian and I, we’re the goofy divers that are usually waving like crazy at the camera or giving a thumbs up. (we were super excited and still living off the high of it all) We are a group of three with our German instructor, Jan (pronounced as “yawn”). He spoke better Spanish than English and tried to help us understand what we would be doing, but once you’re in the water language barriers really don’t matter. :) Jan was awesome and helped me work through a lot of my initial fears, especially me needing to have some serious “mind over matter” that I could breathe under water! For a funny story of all this read below the line. :)

But my favorite part of this movie happens during our second dive when you see a clip of Brian using his underwater camera. A new type of photography has definitely come to life in Brian after learning to scuba dive! Look at Nemo!

If you enjoy the movie and want to see more scuba diving/marine type movies, check out the website http://www.theaquaplanet.com/.

Chelsea, the videographer, was a total sweetheart and has started this on line forum for all her diver friends to post their movies. The shark ones are great, especially fun for the kids!

Okay, check it out! Suiting up!

Me Ra Scuba diving in Koh Phi Phi Thailand

Here we go!!

Scuba diving in Koh Phi Phi Thailand

And the movie!

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the funny story

Jan had told us, or at least we thought he had, that we would start in shallow water and practice putting the mouth piece in, then taking it out, putting it back in under water, then learning how to flood our mask so we can drain it if it ever did flood, and so forth. I could have sworn he said we would practice all this in SHALLOW water. But all of a sudden the boat stops, and he jumps in!

He yells, “Svine to JUMP!” (Time to Jump!) “JUMP NOW! JUMP NOW!”

I look at the water. I’m no dummy. This is not shallow water! I totally freeze. He yells again “Hold the mask and JUMP, Yes Me DA JUMP!”

I close my eyes and jump off the back of the boat, relieved to find that I’m floating. But Jan swims up to me and pushes the button that lets the air out of my jacket, “We go down NOW!” he says. And down I sink, and sink, and sink, and sink until we hit the bottom which is around 30 FEET!

He motions Brian and I underwater (Brian by the way is just eating it all up and not nervous at all) to take out our mouth piece, let go of it, find it with our right hand and insert it back in our mouth. I’m thinking, ‘you want me to open my mouth UNDERWATER, THIRTY FEET BELOW, and then open it back up again to put this mouth piece in.’ I look at him with the eyes of a deer in headlights and shake my head “NO!”, then I try to swim up, but I have a belt of weight on and it doesn’t take much effort for him to hold me there. With his eyes he say “NOW! Try now!” It’s only his eyes and hand motions, but I can still hear the thick German accent and it whips me into shape.

I take the mouth piece out, let go, grab it again, and put it back in my mouth. And I’m not drowning!

Then Jan points to his mask and let’s it flood with water. He pushes on the middle top and blows out all the water, but I’m thinking “holy crap, we are thirty feet below and he wants me to flood my mask! weren’t we going to start in SHALLOW WATER?” I look at Brian for support, but Brian is already doing the exercise and getting a gold star from Jan. (brother!)

Jan looks at me with that German accent look and says with his eyes, “NOW you! You try now!” I do it, and can’t believe I haven’t drowned when it’s over. Jan gives me a couple big pats on the back and the thumbs up. I’ve never been so relieved to see a thumbs up from anyone. This means we’re done with the preliminary safety exercises and get to move among the fish.

As we spend a couple hours diving together, I come to respect Jan. I’m trying to keep a good balance between not hitting the reef and not being a half mile away from the reef. He keeps telling me to hold my arms still, in front, hands folded, and relax. I watch Jan from the side and am amazed at how graceful he is. He may wear the look of a pirate,

Jan, our Dive Master in Thailand

but he is truly graceful when he’s diving. He uses his lungs to fill and empty at specific, effortless measures and this controls how close he comes to the reef while keeping himself suspended there despite the current. I’m speechless. Later in the day he says, “You do GOOD JOB, GOOD JOB!” I beam with pride. We’ve accomplished A LOT today! He later shares that today was dive number 1300–Koh Phi Phi, Cairo, Egypt and Costa Rica are his favorite dive spots. I’m thinking ‘diving in Cairo, Egypt…wow!’

We come out of the water and Brian is so amped up. He’s ready to spend the rest of our time in Thailand 30 ft. below. Me, I’m overwhelmed. To have been a witness to a world I’ve known but never visited to this measure, I’m not sure how to digest it. I can’t do another dive tomorrow. I need my journal!

Scuba diving in Koh Phi Phi Thailand

(the two of us as we climbed out of the water! yeah, WE DID IT!!!–thanks for grabbing the pic Paul!)

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Brian and I want to thank all of you for passing our blog and new product site around to friends and family. Brian is a total stats man, he LOVES, LOVES, LOVES them–looks at them all the time, runs numbers, cross references stuff, pretty much makes me dizzy when he starts giving me the latest reports.

But I got to share this one! He said that for February 2008, we had close to 11,000 UNIQUE people visit the blog! That is unreal! That means close to 11,000 people who have never heard of www.merakohblog.com and www.refusetosaycheese.com, found us in February.

This is a total record breaker and blows my mind. Over 1500 unique people have visited in the first three days of March 08!

We have to say thanks again and again. You’re the reason this crazy number of unique visits goes up each month! When you share our blog, Instructional DVDs, 101 Kits,

Workshops, people totally come check us out, and they stay, they email us, they tell their friends! It’s so exciting!

Brian and I also wanted to give a special thanks to those of you who ordered the DVD series while we were in Thailand. Without us realizing, our system came across a glitch, and a handful of your orders were late to ship. The glitch was fixed several days ago, but Brian’s felt horrible about all this and has been spending the last couple days emailing you each individually. But if this happened to you, and you haven’t heard from Brian, please email (brian@merakoh.com) so we can thank you for your patience and make it up to you.

Okay, check back in today because I think we’ve almost got our scuba diving movie ready to see!

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10. When your husband excuses himself to go use the restroom and doesn’t come back for twenty minutes, you don’t sweat it. You relax and order another drink. :)

9. A kayak trip invites great arguments, but instead of spending the rest of the night crying from how rude his critique of your kayak stroke was, you just splash the heck out of him and it’s over.

8. The French women who are topless on the beach don’t seem to make you as angry. AND, he’s wised up a bit and looks the other way….(“what topless women?…”)

7. You’re more apt to try something new together because the “newness” of a honeymoon isn’t overwhelming you. (We learned to scuba dive and rock climb on this trip, and wow, what an amazing thing to try together!)

6. You’re not in a rush to come home. For one, there are no wedding presents begging to be opened when you get home, only kids begging to be entertained.

5. At the airport you ask someone how to get to the subway. They explain with clear instruction. Then he goes searching for a map b/c he needs to “figure it out for himself”, and instead of starting an argument you just smile and let him find a map (while you head to the subway).

4. When she (this would be me) says, “I feel like we should eat dinner alone tonight b/c we haven’t connected and talked much.” He (which is Brian) decides against saying “We’ve been talking and connecting for the last FIVE days!” Instead he says, “sure, that makes sense.” And turns to roll his eyes so I can’t see (because he knows that will start me crying for sure!)

(now we’re getting into the top three…my favorites!)

3. Every time you turn around, head to dinner, head to the beach, sit and read, go rock climbing, he tells you how beautiful you are. And because you’ve had deep healing in your heart, your spirit smiles and says “i receive”.

2. Fights with each other are still as colorful as ever, but making up has never been so good. The honeymoon can’t even touch the anniversary make-up sessions. :)

1. The number one thing…the countless people who asked us if this was our honeymoon.

I know there are many of you who read this blog and have your own reasons of why anniversary trips have been better than your honeymoon. If you care to share, we’d love it! You can post it below in the comments!

Many photos to come and lots of catching up to do with all of you!

We’ve also got some fun announcements to make this week, like the photo contest winners! :)

Thanks for journeying with us to the end of the world!

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