Archive for September, 2008

I can’t believe I haven’t blogged this week! I have to thank all of you for being so good to me b/c life got to crazy to blog. Is it really almost Friday?!

The TOP TEN Moments from the crazy, full week at Pictage’s Partner Conference were;

1. The beautiful night we had at the Women’s Only speaking event!

2. Watching Brian dance at the Pool Party to Sweet Home Alabama. I still can’t believe he didn’t do a cannonball into the pool. He was so close!

3. Seeing Dane sign his book for people. What a great feeling that moment is for a writer!

4. Finding a guitar in LA (read below for the story on this).

5. Crying with Carlos Baez (again!). Carlos in one of my favorite people in the industry. You must hear him speak someday if you haven’t already.

6. Having lunch with Jessica Claire as she candidly but seriously challenges me and Brian to go for it even more with our business and dreams.

7. Listening to one of my favorite photographers speak, Joe Buissink. What an amazing man and artist. Prepare yourself, his images are amazing!

8. Meeting lots of new friends, like Grace!

9. Waiting for Brian to show up with our presentation as I stall for almost fifteen minutes in front of our audience. Oh yeah, that was awesome. Thanks honey! Read the story below. :)

and #10, the most MEMORABLE moment at Partnercon was when my mouth dropped open as…

10. Brian did a hilarious spontaneous impersonation of Denis Reggie that Ron taped…that is going to bite us for sure! (Denis, you know we love you and owe pretty much every thing to you!)

Cliff Notes…

Monday night was the More than Emotion , all women’s speaking engagement. I’ve wanted to do this for two years, and it finally happened this year. Wow, it was amazing! Can I tell you the stories behind this night? They are kind of long, so if you want to read it all scroll down and read below the bar where it says “Full Length Notes”.

The next day Brian and I presented together on a new term we’ve made up called, Photo Coaching (It’s all about how to help your clients relax in front of the camera). Brian was a little nervous before the session. And we made a bunch of changes right before we started. He told me he’d meet me at the room we were speaking in, but after I had introduced myself, done ALL our giveaways, there was still no sign of Brian. I almost thought he ditched me! But then he came through the door, and I asked the whole audience to stand up and cheer for him. So funny!

We got great feedback from everyone. So many people said we were like a stand up comedy routine, and if you’ve seen Brian and I teach together before, you know we had a serious blast! Lots of women were wishing they knew about the women’s event the night before, and they all heard there was lots of crying. I’m glad we left them laughing by Tuesday afternoon. :) Have to keep the balance, right! If you want to join Brian and I before 2008 ends, we have a few spots left in our Seattle Workshop!

Did we meet this last week in LA? If so, please stay in touch! Become a Facebook friend or comment on the blog or feel free to email us at mera@merakoh.com. We also took our picture with a bunch of you. Email us the link to your blog where we can find it or email us the image. We would love to have a copy too!

If you missed our Photo Coaching talk, good news! The talk we did was a condensed version of what we’ll be doing for WPPI as a Master Class in February 2009! Mark your calendar because we’ll have even more time to entertain and laugh with you!

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Full Length Notes… :)

But here is the scoop with what happened for the ladies event…

I had been praying for this night for a few weeks, and every time I prayed I would start crying. I couldn’t escape this impression on my heart that some of the women coming had a lot of pain and heaviness in their heart. I cried the whole way to the airport and all the way through security. It was as if God was breaking my heart for each woman coming Monday night.

I also felt like I wanted to have someone play the guitar at the end and sing over the women. It was abstract in my mind, but I wanted to end the night with women being able to “just be” and this guitar/singer sing healing type melodies over the women. But I don’t sing, and I don’t have a guitar. So I put out the word and made a couple calls. This friend knew someone, who knew someone, who knew someone that played the guitar and sang. Turns out she was unable to make it because of late notice.

But she knew someone who knew someone. I called that woman, and she wanted to do it but was sick. Everyone was super kind to me on the phone for not knowing me from anywhere. And the last call had kindness that blew me away. This woman, that I have never met or know from anyone, tells me she can’t do it b/c she’s sick but I can use her guitar if I don’t mind picking it up.

Well I don’t really know LA at all. I’m thinking she could be forty minutes away from where we are. We are actually on the 405 at this point and headed to the conference. Turns out she is only TWO exits away. In five minutes I am picking up a guitar from her! What are the odds! We head to the conference, I hand the guitar to Garrett (our dear friend who is co owner of Shoot Dot Edit and turns out to be an amazing musician). I ask him to come and play at the end, singing healing songs over the women. He looks at me like I’m crazy and says “Sure Me Ra. I’ll try it. Sounds good.” I love Garrett!

Twenty four women show up that night which is great for the last minute marketing we did. We all laughed, shared our experiences, I talked about different aspects of feminine wisdom, and there was an incredible safety in the room. At the end, I had Garrett join us and he played the guitar singing the most beautiful healing songs. The women let me pray over them, and we all felt like we had taken an amazing journey together. It was an incredible night.

I’m thinking we’ll be doing this again. Maybe in Vegas in February at WPPI 09? :) Give me a shout if you think women need to gather together more often at these photography conferences!

The funniest part to me was how many men asked if they could stay and listen too. The men were all so kind about it. It kind of reminds me of the dynamic of how women go to the bathroom together and men wondering what they’re talking about…

Thanks to all the men that supported me doing this event like, my sweetie Brian, Robert and the Photography Mentor Team, Garrett and Jared for helping me find that guitar! You guys are all amazing! Thank you!

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For me the answer is always the kids.

Most the time, adults need to lead children.

But there is also a time when adults need to step aside and listen to children, allowing the children to lead.

Whenever I do a portrait shoot for a family, I always watch and listen to the kids. They are my guide to how this session will unfold. They answer all my questions…How much energy do they have? How do they feel about the camera in their face? Are they scared by it, excited about it? Do they want to connect with me? What can they teach me? How would they take a picture if they were the photographer? Carter didn’t have to think about the answer to this question. :) He’s a natural!

I had the honor of taking Brendan’s photos this summer. It was such a rich experience because I also took Carter’s photos when he was a baby. To watch Gayla and Ken’s family grow is amazing. They are the most wonderful, kind family, and I’m so excited for you to see their slideshow! Turn up the volume, the music by Alison Krauss is perfect for this sweet family shoot.

To watch Brendan’s Slideshow, click on the name!

But even if you watch it, I have to show you two favorites!

Look at how Baby Brendan smiled in his brother’s arms.

Carter has got the sweetest face and little curls in his hair. I’m telling you, he will rob your heart when you meet him!

For those of you doing portrait shoots, here are a few rules of thumb I go by…

Before I start a portrait shoot with a baby, I always suggest feeding the baby right before we start. Not so much for hunger but comfort purposes. I know that I’m going to spend the next two hours asking this little baby to interact with me. And even if they sleep through the whole session, they will have connected with a me…a stranger. I want them to start with the smell of their mom, take a break in between and maybe nurse again–reconnecting with their mom, and then I watch them carefully to make sure I never ask to much.

As you can see in the first image above, the two year old can have pretty strong ideas about how a photoshoot should go. And I love it! Some photographers email me and say they get really stressed out at this point. The kids aren’t cooperating and getting crabbier by the second. But I think it’s important to remember that as you gain confidence in yourself, you will know when you’ve captured the shots you want.

And remember, the family rarely feels you caught anything “good” because they are caught up in how their kids are behaving or not behaving. But as your confidence grows, you’ll be able to reassure the family that you actually caught exactly what you wanted.

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Congratulations Gayla! I loved working with your family again! What a honor. Brian and I adore all four of you. We can’t wait to connect again soon!

Much love,
Me Ra

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Now it’s time to do my favorite contest of all! We have saved one spot for the mom who wins the new Running on Empty contest! Here’s how it works! In honor of how wonderful moms are and all that they do and give, Brian and I have reserved one spot in the Chicago Workshop and Add On Day for a special mom YOU nominate! That’s right, she’ll get a free pass to the beginner workshop as well as the Add On day with the amazing Bob and Dawn Davis! (Please note, we don’t provide room/board and travel.) To nominate a mom, you must post a comment telling us about the mom who you think deserves a big break in life! If your a mom, you’re probably laughing because we ALL deserve a serious break. But the moms we’re looking for are the ones who have had a ridiculous amount of stress in their life whether from trauma or things just not going her way this year. She is a mom in your life that needs a serious blessing to come her way. She needs a surprise giving her empty tank some fuel. If she is a woman that has miscarried, she is still a mom in my mind b/c I know her heart became a mother’s heart the moment she found out she was pregnant. I’m proud to say that our previous winners stepped out on a limb and nominated themselves. Take courage in them and feel free to nominate yourself if you know you need a serious break. Who knows, you may have your house remodeled by Oprah! :) We’ll collect all the nominees, have a committee of wonderful moms vote, and then announce the winner in the next few weeks! Nominate her today and turn her day around! Oh, wait! Don’t forget to let her know you’ve nominated her too! If I was a mom nominated I’d love to know my friends were thinking of me whether I won or not! Deadline for ALL nominations is Saturday, September 13th, 2008 at midnight PST. Nominations must be posted as a comment on this blog post. Nominations emailed or posted on other blog posts may be overlooked. Please post all nominees here. Thanks! If you are in the LA area this Monday night, don’t forget to join me for a Special Women’s Event. I’m going to do a two hour session just for women called More than Emotion: The Undercurrents of Feminine Wisdom. This night is so special, and I can’t wait to see so many of you there! To see if there are still tickets available, go here. For details on what this night is about, go here. See you soon! _____________________________________________________________________________________________________ For more fun photo exercises, check out our popular Instructional DVDs Refuse to Say Cheese , our 101 Kits for starting or expanding a business in photography, click on the words of your choice! The Chicago Workshop is sold out. But the is now open for registration!

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After trouble shooting the reasons of why my keyboard won’t work this morning…I’m finally here! Yeah!! :) You have to love little problems like that when they burn hours of your time.

I have loved reading about the things you did to escape during the three day weekend. So proud of you! If you haven’t shared yet, go to this post and tell us what you did in the comments.

Even though Brian and I were working most the weekend with our wedding in Colorado, I still stole some time to myself to write in the morning and catch up with dear friends. In fact, Brian and I not only caught up but stayed with them all weekend! (love you guys!)

The wedding in Colorado was spectacular. The location was at a private golf course called the Sanctuary (the website doesn’t do it justice). When a place is named the Sanctuary, I find that I have high expectations of what this place should look like. The Sanctuary blew my expectations away. We even saw buffalo as we made our way up the winding, dusty road.

This next shot is just for my dad. When I was a little girl, he’d be getting ready to take a trip for his company and would say (insert broken Asian accent)

“I’m going to go catch BIG, BIG buffalo for our family on this trip Me Ra. You wait and see. This buffalo will be so big, it will feed the family for several months. Make sure you learn how to catch buffalo when you get older. Catching buffalo is very important to surviving.”

Here’s me catching a buffalo. Love you ahba!

Back to the Sanctuary, the view from the top of the Sanctuary was unreal. Took my breath away. And the coolest thing is the story behind this place. Supposedly, the owner wanted to join a nearby golf course, but he couldn’t get in. So he decided to build his own! That’s one way to solve the problem! Thus, the sanctuary. Even cooler, the golf course is only used for charity events and weddings. Isn’t that a great story!

Here’s a sneak peak at that beautiful view and the beautiful wedding couple.

Coming this week!

We start the nominations for the Running on Empty seat for the Chicago workshop. Nominate the women you know who needs a break and is running on empty. If she wins, she’ll be given a free spot at the Chicago Two Day Beginner Workshop (this has sold out), plus the Add On Day with Bob and Dawn Davis (value is $1299). This starts tomorrow!

We are also going to announce the winner of the Water Photo Contest and the Random Voter Award Winners this week! AND, you all AMAZE me because we got 440 votes by the deadline!!! The goal was 400! And then another 40 plus votes have rolled in since then making it a total of 487! The most votes we’ve ever had on a photo contest was 356! I’d say we blew that number out of the water!

And best of all, we’ve got a new slideshow to show you from a shoot we did!

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For more fun photo exercises, check out our popular Instructional DVDs Refuse to Say Cheese , our 101 Kits for starting or expanding a business in photography, click on the words of your choice!

The Chicago Workshop is sold out. But the Seattle December Workshop is now open for registration! Click HERE to register!

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The One that Caught My Eye!

Brian and I just finished shooting a beautiful wedding in Colorado this weekend.

I’m working on my laptop as we make our way back home, and I come across one image that says LOVE, LOVE, LOVE.

He has stolen my heart with one glance of his eye.

What is a mom to do?

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