The Status of YOU!

Today is a little bit of a long one.  Some of you know what that means.  Brian sent me away this last Monday and Tuesday for two nights of being alone.  I had no idea how lonely I was for myself–how much I missed time with just me.  Does that make sense?  I slept in [...]

Today is our 14 year anniversary, and I am more in love with Brian than ever! When we first got engaged, a woman at our church asked me if I knew what the meaning of marriage was.  I was bright eyed and clueless to the passionate answer she gave.  She said “Marriage is about fighting [...]

Every time we hold a CONFIDENCE Workshop a number of the women tell me in all the months leading up to the conference, Genie blessed them beyond belief. (Isn’t she gorgeous! Photo by Julie Watts) Who is Genie? Genie not only handles the bazillion different logistics that go into holding our workshops, but she seems [...]

Jealousy is a Map!

Jealousy is a map. Each of our jealousy maps differs. Each of us will probably be surprised by

A few months ago, my dad called me to tell me about a show he’d discovered.  After losing his leg in June, to a tragic accident of being hit by a teenager who was texting, he spends his days in either rehabilitation or down time.  His down time has given him a chance to see [...]

To my dearest Pascaline, I’ve been writing this in my head since we were in Thailand, trying to figure out how to articulate all that I’m feeling.  When your dad first asked me to think about going back to Thailand, he shared how there was something special waiting for us there.  I assumed it was [...]

In a recent interview, I was asked to talk about what inspires me.  For one of the first times, I didn’t say my kids.  In fact, I didn’t even hesitate with my answer.  I said “Moms inspire me!”  At the Seattle CONFIDENCE Workshop this weekend, I was reminded of why this is so deeply true. [...]

The Gibbon Apes were singing in my dreams the other night.  I could hear their whooping sounds echoing through the jungles of Thailand as the sun rose in the distance.  The morning heat was already thick, and I pushed back the vegetation with hopes of seeing the Gibbons up in the jungle’s canopy.  They spotted [...]

(forewarning: It’s a long one today. ) I was reminded last week of how critical some people can be when you are pursuing your passion. A number of you emailed me about how to deal with criticism, how to hang in there when you feel unwanted, unwelcome, and most of all, how to know whether [...]

“We must do that which we think we cannot.”